I've come to the conclusion

That everyone has big trials in life..  and we are all weirdEveryone we know is a little quirkyBut you love them anyways
We all maybe have times of peace and happiness but everyone is going through something or will go through something and it's these things that make us more empathetic and loving to other people.
 And while some peoples trials may be more public than others.. nothing is ever unfair. It may feel that way because you see other people so happy.. But They have gone through things too. We all go through what we go through to help others. I think it's not just to learn something for ourselves it's to help others with their trials. Anyone else feel this way. I've had so many amazing people who have gone through hard things help me. Just my random thoughts about empathy for the day.
Enjoy the random picture I found on my phone from a random day Brandon brought me home flowers when we lived in midnapore... It made me smile remembering such a simple life...but also greatful that My life has been enriched beyond the feeling of getting flowers